Saturday, December 2, 2017

2017 Favorite Products

Disclaimer: I'm just sharing my love of all the products that worked for me this year. None of these were sponsored or paid for or ads. Just my actual opinion of actual products that actually worked. If you have any questions, ebelleful @ gmail usually does the trick.

Hello wonder bugs!

How's your day going? Who's ready for 2018?

I can't believe how this year has gone. For me, it hasn't been quite so fast as the other years seem to have gone. It didn't fly by at all. I feel like, in a way, I earned every day I lived the hard way haha.

But like not in a bad way, if that makes sense.

I made a real effort this year to take a piece back from each day for myself. My Instagram is full of wonderful memories. It's pretty sweet.

So I feel pretty qualified to tell you guys of the hidden treasures I found.

I'll keep this intro nice and short. These are the products that blew my mind, worked for my lifestyle, and just totally fly headfirst into my virtual and physical carts when I'm on on the move.

Maybe I have your new favorite something on this list.

Winter Candy Apple anything from Bath and Body Works

This scent came out last year, if I remember correctly, and honestly, every time I reach for my hand cream or the wallflowers, I get giddy.


It's a fresh, clean smell. But sweet too.

It's perfect. And I think this is the greatest not-too-much but not-too-bold scent they've come out with.

This beat my lavender's sweet ass. And forget about Vanilla Bean Noel.

Better Than Sex mascara


If you breathe, you know about this mascara. You don't need to be a beauty guru to hear women and girls whisper about Better Than Sex mascara.

I freaking love this thing. The heaviness of the actual look, the way there's length and volume, goodness.

I do the waterproof because my eye area is always so...moist? I don't know. I'm a crier. I need everything waterproof.

Sexy Healthy Hair Soy Moisturizing Shampoo & Conditioner

Can I just tell you guys a short story? Who believes in me? Not me.

I can't tell a short story. The long version is I gave myself a chemical buzzcut a few years back trying to bleach my hair white. Yeah, it was going well until it was not.

My hair since then has not been the happiest camper. I tried to do Designline by the haircut places across the US. The olive version, actually is what eventually started to rehabilitate me.

Then last year in May, I even remembered the month you see, I got talked into getting something to moisturize my hair for my curls. (I actually am more of a wavy haired girl, so mistake number one.)

Well for the first two weeks, awesome. Super curly hair. Happy hair. Curls that looked done. Then it died.

My hair died. My scalp died. I mean, it was bad enough that it was still recovering from being burned by the bleach I used, but now it was just dropping pounds of dead skin.

I'm talking dandruff, folks.

You're welcome.
I mean, ew. Like wow. And I tried everything. Mistake Number Two. Until I gave up on Head and Shoulders and Selsun Blue and all that crap.

At the same time this BS was happening to me, I'd been treating my hair with an argon oil for the obvious dryness post-bleach disaster.

Available at Ulta only, apparently.

So I thought, fuck it. Found the 1000ML for a steal at Ross. $12.99? Sure. What else did I have to lose?

Picture this: virgin hair. The strength, the color, the gloss. I'm not saying it'll perform miracles for you too, but I am a believer. And after straying after a lightener (do I ever actually learn my lesson? I'm spoiling the autobio for you: no) I realized that this is my holy grail of hair products.

I swear by it and if you're having trouble, what's gonna happen? You lose your hair? Forever?

Fat chance, one. Two, can I just say how great wigs have become?

Raspberry Riot Lemon Mate by Teavana


I mean look at it. Do I really need more to sell you on it?

I wasn't much of a tea drinker until my BFF Amanda from Geeks Who Seek bugged me to go to Teavana. I tried this and fell.

I mean, I've had four to five cups in one sitting.

I love raspberry but this tea? With some Belgian Rock Sugar? Uh, yes please.


Eyeshadows from BH Cosmetics

I was super cautious and unwilling to buy anything from a then mainly online makeup seller. But Bubzbeauty released her shadows late last year and I had to get it to see how it went.

And I was hooked.

I bought a ton of them. The one I was most desperate to get? You guessed it.


Take Me Back to Brazil.

Even as I'm writing this post, I'm wearing about all the pink ones on the side mixed with the Bubzbeauty palette.

It's honestly super nice. I'm still starstruck.

And have I mentioned how affordable they all are? I think they might be doing their second Black Friday still?

Jergens Ultra Healing Lotion


Living in Colorado, I know dryness.

If you're coming for a visit, forget curling your hair. Forget plump skin.

Drink water and buy this lotion.

I get bruise-like patches of dryness when I don't get this lotion on at the start of winter. That's how dry it is, but it's also how powerful and hydrating this lotion is.

It's incredible.

Even if you live in a wet area, or even a combo kind-of-in-between area, this is just a great idea. I love the scent too. Not overpowering. Doesn't linger. It's lovely.

I'd pick this over the thick nourishing creams at Bath and Body Works.

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I thought I had way more products to share, but these are the ones I haven't raved about yet or enough. And everything else I might still be on the fence or trying out.

I'll likely do a favorites of YouTube for the next post.

Thanks so much to all of you who have spent so many years with me on this blog. I know it's never really had one purpose or even two, but it's so much fun to just kinda talk to you guys. Share weird experiences, TMI, playlists, the actual casual eventual purpose of this blog to talk about writing and storytelling.

Thank you so much and even though 2018 will be the same thing with a different name, let's spend it happier and healthier.

xo,
elie

EDIT: I remember what I forgot. Jergens is added in from the original post. Whoops.

Thursday, November 30, 2017

Diary Post #3: The Immortal Collector

Hello, tiny wonders!

How are you all?

I know I'm being scarce again. What's new?

I will tell you.

Throwback for some of you.

I'm just checking in here to let you know sometime next year The Immortal Collector, my project from years back, will be back on Wattpad.

It's a smexy paranormal action thing. If that's your thing, Cat's got humor, cunning, and the retelling of Persephone to keep you entertained.

I'm super excited. I've been working on redoing the cover since it needs some cleaning up.

More info to come, but I thought I'd drop by and say hello.

What have y'all bought? Have you seen all the deals?

My God everyone is suffering. That's what back to back deals mean. Ooh.

Anyway, let me know what goods there are that I need to get. I'm working on a Best of 2017 products post for those of you who need a little something to top off your gifts.

See you in a few!

XO
elie

P.S. Come vacation vicariously with my BFF and her hubby (and maybe even me) at Geeks Who Seek.

Saturday, November 25, 2017

Movie Night for BLOOD AND WATER

Hello darlings!

How are you all?

I haven't done one of these Movie Night posts in ages. I kept wanting to revive them so bad but I just haven't been as brave or as social with authors as in the before times.

Practice! Practice! Practice!

But I figured that I'd probably be more inclined to start all over again if I just started with something of mine.

So here goes nothing.

First things first: The Cast

I had so many people in the cast to cast and not enough people to pick from. Which is sad. A lot of the people I want to cast I need to dig very deep to find. Hopefully, if something like this ever happens, more people of color will be seen.

But the only person I have for sure mentally cast is Gerald's cousin Saria.


Saria, the leader of the LA cousin pack, has to be played by Maggie Grace. I thought of her as I built Saria in the draft. It can't be anyone else. Please.

Saria is lovely, tall, and built like a weapon. Maggie is just every girl's dream. Sigh.

I wished there had been more of her in Breaking Dawn because I had thought of her as a supernatural way before her vampire role. I'd love to see her as the violent and unpredictable leader of the wolf pack. Dreamy sigh.

Who's going to write the screenplay?

I know a lot of people love when their authors write the screenplay, I just think that with different beasts come different skills. I'd much rather watch someone with practice write my screenplay.

Like Mary Harron (The Moth Diaries) or ooooooh Lee Hae-young (The Silenced.) I think the teams of either of these movies would just make me fall right in love with any adaptation. But really, Diablo Cody could probably make this thing crazy good with all the complicated forms of love involved.

But then who's going to direct it?

I have always said this director in the past for any of my stories, because I just loved the atmosphere of the movies he's made. David Slade kinda nailed one of my all time favorite movies 30 Days of Night and I wasn't a fan of Eclipse as a book but the movie version felt so warm and romantic and scary that I just loved him since that moment.

I think the more I write Robbie and Gerald, the more convinced I am that this style of love and action would suit them perfectly. I'd be dead of a heart attack if someone put this kind of thought into Blood and Water.

Producer?

If you're unsure of what a producer's duties are, they basically can have a hand in everything or a few things. Which sounds weird but they kinda figure out the project, who'd work best in macro scale, so on.

This is literally my favorite role to talk about. I love producers. Which makes this question super hard.

I mean, come on, Wyck Godfrey/Temple Hill Entertainment is basically everyone's first choice given the young adult pieces he's had a hand in over the years.

What's the soundtrack/score like?

I am a big music person. I'm always going on adventures with YouTube recommendations, just trying to find something incredible no one else is talking about yet. So much to love, so little time.

When I first started writing this story, way way back, I actually had written a few songs. So this whole soundtrack has to be a blend of mainstream and indie.

Lots of Secret and Whisper and throwbacks like the sound of Blue by Birthday Massacre.

If this thing ever got made, the one thing I'd drool over the most is meeting the bands that are involved in the actual movie part. I'd probably be screaming like Robbie during the whole thing. (Yay cameos!)

What's the one liner on the poster?

Two families both alike in ruthlessness, in fair Washington where we lay our scene.

I have had such trouble with this one. I think everyone does. But I really think alluding to Romeo and Juliet, at least this time (spoiler: all the time in the draft up on Wattpad) was appropriate.

Bonus details!

I'm really, really in love with the way the cameras move in some movies. This kind of thing I will be super picky about, if I had a say in it, because there's so many ways to tell a story. I think the more cinematic, the better for me.

It might not be the world's deepest story or anything, but I think something as small as panning toward the left or skyward make such a difference and tend to highlight such great and pivotal moments in quiet ways.

Ways you don't connect until after the end sometimes.



That's all I could think of! I know that's a lot of info. I actually had a ton of fun imagining Robbie's story in cinematic sweeps and in pivotal scenes and the people who imaginarily worked on it. Still gives me the flutters thinking about working on a movie but that's for another dream haha.

Who else is closing in on their 50k goal? I've hit some rough patches but November hasn't seen the last of me.

Back when I used to do this with debut authors and authors promoting their new releases, I had so much fun. If you know of someone who writes YA/NA fantasy (any kind of fantasy)/horror/or dark contemporary and you'd love to know more about their upcoming release, link me to them! I'm prepared!

Read Blood and Water here. Email me for guest post info at ebelleful @ gmail.

XO
elie

Monday, November 6, 2017

Diary Post #2

Hello, my sweetie pies!

How are you all today?

I'm just decimating a takeout box of shrimp lo mein.

Can we talk about how good this is?

I decided today I'd have my fortune cookie first and all it told me was that nothing stays the same in this life. How lame!

My sister's was better. It said that she could keep a secret.

She was so mad.

I might have enjoyed this too much.

So anyway, I call ahead to pick up the food. It's our favorite place but I'm coming out of a vacay where I've just stayed at home in PJs all day (much recommend if you can.) I wanted to end vacay strong so I tell the guy my name is Elie.

Sister goes in to pick up the food and says it's for Elie. The guy, who was the sweetest thing on the phone, is the sweetest thing in person. He was confused and asked, "Kellie?"

Sister, wanting to meet him halfway, mentions what we ordered.

The guy says oh and tells her that my new Chinese name is Kellie. I fucking love the new guy haha.

Anything fun happen in your days?

I am so refreshed and hoping to have a great day at work tomorrow.

Off to edit some side projects and to finish today's episode of Blood and Water.

X

Sunday, November 5, 2017

Diary Post #1

Just a small introduction, guys, just like I would on any normal blog post. I've been working with an idea of doing a diary type post on here. Just an everyday, what's going on kind of rant like when I first started this blog.

I'd been so eh about doing it because I know I stray from storytelling elements from time to time if I do rant. But it's one way to keep up with the blog and not let it fall into disrepair.

Is that word weird or what?

Anyway!

Without further ado, my actual diary post.

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Hello, my tiny wonders!

How are you all doing?

I am having some minor wrist issues.

I'm still writing and updating Blood and Water for part of my NaNoWriMo word count. For November 4th, I actually did a record five chapters and actually quickly and sadly realized that carpal tunnel may be absent, but it is only dormant.


Super painful. I do not recommend.

I'm already working on several other projects as part of the Blood and Water thing. Mostly to create a story bible for when I go back and revise it. But now I'm wondering if one day of writing really does count for all the months I haven't been.

Yup, the laptop is still dead. I'm just borrowing the one I'm on for a short period of time.

And I definitely don't want to get a new macbook. I mean, I love them. They're great in comparison but I don't think anyone wants to shell out that much money just off the bat.

But anyway! No more ranting. I actually came here to tell you guys the two things I'm excited about.

One is this nun horror short that I cannot, for the life of me, watch in peace.



Go. I dare ya.

FYI, if you have the iPhone 7 or greater, best action is with the buds in. Because let me tell you. Best. Sound. Ever.

But I'm such a crybaby.



Two, I wanted to show you guys this. Look at this.


This is my BFF.

Oi. Does anyone else's BFF do these things?

Anyway, the website she's talking about is Geeks Who Seek, and if you love living vicariously through geeks who travel, you're going to love their blogs. Because I will make them tell us all their secrets, and make them take ALL the pictures.

Now I'm going to brave that nun horror short and rest my wrist. See you in the next blog.

XO

Thursday, November 2, 2017

Blood and Water

Hello my darlings!

How have you all been?

I've been busy! I promise there's a diary post coming up soon, but I keep writing this one and forgetting to publish it.

One of my many projects since I went silent on Twitter is Blood and Water, a YA werewolf story about an aspiring investigative reporter and the drummer of his favorite band, both sons of warring families.

I am super excited for this project for several reasons.

One, I FINALLY threw out Ms. Perfectionist Can't-Publish-This and post (almost) nightly on Wattpad.


Two, Robbie's story was one of my first projects. Like ever.

I am so excited that instead of being a side character, like he was in his first existence, he's actually a main character.

I know. Writers are weird.


Anyway! Despite already starting, and already posting, I'll be doing my NaNoWriMo count there. Just thought I'd drop by, mention it, and share my favorite part of the story so far.

I'm trying to post a chapter at night. As usual, I am pantsing it. It is a first draft, but I am digging the new writing style.

See you guys on WP.


High school freshmen Robbie Melo determined to work his way out of Small Town, USA is caught in a supernatural turf war when the boy he's interested in lures him into the world of mosh pits, shrieked lyrics, and bloodthirsty werewolves

Favorite excerpt:
I looked at the options in the row. All pretty new cars. Sleek, shiny, mostly paupe, white, and black. With one sexy exception. Some sports car in a matte black. And right beside it probably a scholarshp child's last resort to get to school. A lime green trash can, relic of probably my mother's teenage years.
"So which one is it?" I asked as we crossed the last line.
Jesse flat out threw his keys, school lanyard and everything, at the lime bug.
"Beep beep," the band harmonized, as if they were unlocking the car.
"Uh...." I stood at the back of the bug.
If you wanna keep up with Robbie and Madison WA's rock band P.W., don't read too fast. Blood and Water is on its way to crack levels of Romeo and Juliet. Just slowly. Nightly if this computer I'm at stops dying half hour after I disconnect it from the charge.

And P.S. I am working on writing posts and putting them on a schedule. More information to come.

Monday, October 23, 2017

Playlist! 2017 #6 + Catch Up

*This post was written directly after the last posts. I just never got around to editing, which I have now.*

Hello, my wonder loves and welcome back to this blog for this reason.


Before I release my mix for this playlist, I just wanted to touch on the last two posts on this blog about Chester Bennington and my own experience with suicide.

Firstly, I didn't even realize that that first post would be about me or that it would be a plea for someone not to attempt it. I thought it would be more like the second. Where Chester touched this fan's life and helped me grow and hold on.

There was supposed to be a third post. It was supposed to be way happier. It was supposed to talk about the world after suicide and the ways so many people have gone on to help others.

Unfortunately, I haven't been feeling 100%, as I mentioned. I want to rage so of course I'll be raging with LP in second, while I get some work done.

The third post couldn't happen because of all these negative feelings. I would be saying the wrong things.

Then on top of this feeling, someone who I used to work with reconnected only to talk about how she was back because someone close to her had attempted suicide. And was so close to succeeding.

I am officially done with this month. This year. This life.

One of the things I'm grateful to commercials for is that they talk about how depression is exhausting. It's the reason why, when people see people like them topple over or give up, they feel even more tired. I couldn't tell you what kind of weight it was. It's just something you always have on your shoulders.

So anyway, I watched The Shack today which I never expected to do and it's actually really good. As someone who believes in God in a very non-religious way (roll with it,) this movie was super nice to relax into and it sharpened my focus again.

I don't know if I'll ever make it into helping other people like me. Right now I'm just trying to remember how much water to drink and how much food is too much or too little.

I just figured I'd acknowledge that those posts existed and hell yes I meant to open up like that. I'm not going to erase them or anything. They're there and they're out for anyone who Googles the magic words.

By the way, if you ever feel like you need some cheering up, Adam Levine gif is the best Google Image search like ooh, daddy. Hahaha. NO REGRETS.

Haha, anyway. Fast forward through the months of silence. I just reached my limit with all the news on my Twitter, with the chaos and false hope. I shut down.

I definitely thought it'd be like giving up but I reconnected to my friends, family. I've been doing incredible and incredibly difficult things.

So much has changed yet nothing at all. More details on everything I have done and learned in another post.

Here's my mix for these last few months, including the link to my new writing project, which you can read as I write on the fly on Wattpad.

MR. CAR RADIO by Twenty One Pilots vs The Killers


PACIFY HER, MR. BRIGHTSIDE by The Killers vs Melanie Martinez


SUGAR, THIS IS GOSPEL by Fall Out Boy vs Panic! At the Disco


CLOSE TO BREAKING by The Chainsmokers vs Linkin Park


SET FIRE TO THE END by Adele vs Linkin Park


NUMB (CRAWLING)/ELASTIC HEART by Linkin Park & Sia



Yeah, Mr. Brightside is the flavor of the week. I'll see you guys on Wattpad, and maybe soon on Twitter.

Ta!

Friday, July 21, 2017

About Chester

It's still not sinking in.

Last night after I wrote the post I thought would be about him (and instead turned into a plea to have people reconsider suicide) I shut off the lights, the computer, and tried to not be in the same head space.

I needed to get up early with my family for breakfast. My own mental healthy and care of it has been shaky the last few weeks, so I knew this was one of those saying it without saying it moments. Inevitable as a pebble's fall from a cliff.

But I just kept hearing Chester sing. Sometimes it was Shadow of the Day.

Sometimes it was In the End.

Or Crawling.

But every time I shut my eyes, I heard him.

I didn't get to sleep until four. Not unusual but also horrible for waking up early and for being in public and for hearing a dead man's letters.

My voice broke as I drove my family to breakfast. They tried to change the subject, though, I couldn't change my mood.
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When your emotions are all fucked up and you don't know why you're angry or why you have to mess things up, the only real thing that helps is finding someone who feels the same way.

You might be fuck ups but at least you're not the only ones.

Chester. A thirteen dollar portable CD player. A playhouse built long after anyone would ever play int it. And thunderstorms.

That was how I spent my early teen years. Playing the music ridiculously loud, not caring about the lightning flashes hurrying forward.

Screaming at the top of my lungs with him. Beating things with my pillows. I felt like all that pent up energy, it could be powerful in a good way. I didn't know how yet but it made me feel like a superhero.

I was still alive. I still had a lot of life in me.
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This can't be happening. This can't be happening.

Because we grew up together. Because he put words to feelings I never could name. Because I thought that when his music got quieter, that the rage had been subdued.

Because if he's gone, who can I rage with?

He must have felt like that after Chris. But amplified and we saw how that turned out.

This can't be happening.

Because this isn't the kind of thing that happens to people we know. It happens to letters strung to foreign names on an article we gloss over waiting at stops. This is the kind of thing that happens to people who are not us.

It happens to people who didn't see the signs and couldn't have done anything anyway.
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When Robin Williams died, it was the first time a celebrity's death felt personal to me. I wanted to know everything. I wanted to see everything that I missed, because I missed so much.

I just didn't realize this would hit harder.

How do you say goodbye to someone who was so important to who you are as a person?

Chester helped me grow as a person. Chester filled the world with himself.

I haven't looked up anything about his death. Though you can't go one search in without seeing the words "hang himself."

With Robin, I wanted to know. With Chester I'm so mad. Because why do I care how he did it? He is more than the way he went out.

Some of these details, though, are pieces to a puzzle some poor distraught human is trying to solve. And so I get it in a way.

But I don't want to know anymore.

They say he didn't leave a note. Didn't his music say enough?
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Today's song is My December.

It keeps replaying for me. It keeps taking me back to my sophomore year when I first realized what I had could knock me off my feet.

I stayed what felt like days in bed. Staring at one wall.

My December was the song that set in motion a lot of horrible things for me. Because I heard it and I heard it again when some school mates were obsessed with depression-caused suicides. That was when I thought that the only way to be free was to die.
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In one of my lows, I'm starting to have the suggestive dreams. The ones that like to play with insecurities.

And in the day time I wonder if I'll ever reach his age and think I was being optimistic before. That I suffered enough and I just drop.

He was so intricately tied to my story, I never really saw it before. And to see what happened, the doubts fester and sprout from each other.

But if I can just focus on day to day, I can survive the pain. It doesn't have to be the same story forever.
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There are no words. I've been trying so hard to explain it, but there are no words to explain how much I miss him already. How I'm listening to his music now and I feel like the world is ending all over again.

His voice is so beautiful and so full of sincerity.

I'm not ready to say goodbye. I can put it off and I can just forget it on accident on purpose, but that wouldn't change the fact that he won't be around anymore.

Might as well break the bones the news didn't get to. Might as well just set everything right and let it heal.

There's no going back. There's no changing the way things turned out.

So, Chester, thank you for being my companion in my formative years. Thank you for the rage and the outlet and the sincerity. Thank you for your voice and for bringing together so many people who, without you, would have not found people like them.

I'm so sorry that we couldn't make it better for you. I really truly am but we are all so grateful to have had the time we did with you.

I love you. I'll see you.

Elie.

One More Light

This post will not make any sense.

I don't know where to start. I don't know what to say.

For some of you, it'll be old news to hear this story. The one about the girl in a car calling the suicide prevention hotline. For others of you, it'll be so confusing to relate to Chester Bennington.

So let's go backwards and backwards into the past. Back to late 2014, early 2015. There was no job, no money. There was no health insurance. No school, no passion. Nothing.

When people say they were in a hole, a dark and deep place in their lows, it's so true. Because there's layers and feet and too much to dig through to reach out and touch a living person. And so when this happened to me, years ago, I packed my car after a fight with my parents.

I had nowhere to go, nowhere to live. Nothing to live off except a few dollars from a job I walked out on.

I gave up hope of ever writing anything I loved--I wasn't even sure I loved writing anymore. If I honestly ever did. I had no direction in life.

At the time, I begged my best friend at the time for shelter. And she took me in.

I couldn't tell you if she knew how bad things were.

I'm not sure if she knows even now what was going through my head that evening.

But her world was marriage and date night and a third wheel. I didn't want to impose so I thought of something that would fix so many things I couldn't possibly fix. In my mind, it wasn't that they were broken or that I was. I just assumed that I wasn't compatible with living in this world.

Let me tell you what. You can't argue your way out of that. For broken, you can get parts to replace the things that aren't functioning or you can have someone fix them.

But when you see yourself as a waste of space, as a failure, as something really not meant for this world, you kinda forgive yourself in a sick way and in a way, you make peace with getting yourself out.

I sat on the couch just listing all the ways I was right. I'd never really thought anything through so this just solidified my means to the end. I mean, when you see all the things you've never been good at and you think of all the ways there's nothing left for you, understandably, you can tell yourself that it's okay.

The peace came soon and I thought, you know, I've gotten this far, I might as well just see what the suicide hotline is about. I already knew I was going to do it. I didn't have a lot of options. I had tried to reel myself in several times before, but I'd never seen the bottom.

I went to the car, saying I had an important call to make. Not that I thought anyone knew what I was talking about.

I called the hotline and got a guy named Al or Allen (who I am trying to find.) We were talking and some of the things he asked, I didn't want to say.

I think a part of me already knew I was going to make an attempt because I vaguely remember reading things about how suicide hotline people had a pretty high suicide rate themselves or how they could dispatch police to an area.

He knew he'd be getting nowhere with me so we talked. I surprised myself by knowing exactly how I wanted to die.

I'd always really loved driving and I knew I could drive for a few hours to a desolate place and you know, drive my car right into a bride thing and boom, done.

I wanted it to be far so there'd be less of an issue. I considered leaving my ID or scrolling a note on the back of a receipt that said no living relatives or something so no one would be bothered.

I felt better telling him and knowing he wouldn't find me in time. If he could trace my phone, I was already planning on dropping it in a garbage bin somewhere opposite of where I was headed. It'd be moot to send police after me. It just would be.

I was pretty calm after awhile, just letting things fall into place, when I heard him get slightly panicked.

I'd done enough damage in one lifetime to not feel horrible immediately. I think I apologized profusely.

The last thing I wanted to be was the person who broke his heart and made him feel like I felt. I swore up and down I wasn't going to do it anymore and he begged me simultaneously to stay on the line.

I couldn't cope with that. I didn't want to be thrown into a center to protect suicidal people. I didn't want to bring that to other people in my life so I hung up.

He kept calling and calling. And I thought of throwing my phone away. What did I have to lose? But I kept it.

I felt so guilty, I went to movie night, minded my own business, and didn't even cry that night. I felt so bad for terrorizing that poor boy.

He kept calling and calling the next day until he gave up. And the only thing that made me feel better was that he knew I must have been alive. He knew how I was going out and that sort of thing made the news and I kept ignoring his calls too.

I prayed, the first time in a long time, that he was okay. That he'd feel stronger that he'd please just be okay.

I went to pick up some stuff from my parents' house and my dad and I made up. It wasn't and isn't the end of my almost suicide story. And it's not necessarily a sad thing. Hear me out.

One of the things that I sorta learned by myself over the years is that there's this thing where yes, more people are recognizing and owning depression and other mental illnesses. Going to counseling, taking medication if they need it, supporting and promoting self-care, but there's also this other dark side no one likes to talk about which is, in my opinion, the reason so many people with chronic, reoccurring or just season depression.

You will not win.

It's not something you get over. It's not a flu where you get rid of it, babes. It's not.

Some of us have it for all of our lives. We might be able to control it with one remedy or the other. Some of us will only have it rear its head every few years, some every few hours.

People need to stop telling us that we're going to beat it. It's not a defeating thing to say you have to get up and do this all over again. It's not.

Babe, you survived the day before this. You can do this again today. It gets tiring. Of course it does but you only have to fight battles in increments you want to.

It's not easy, but it's not fair to tell someone that there will always be nonstop happiness. That the dragon's slain and there's no more sadness.

We are always growing. Always, always, always. And every new person we are we will have to face new dragons. Things will be hard, but we are made to be resilient.

I've been trying to look for Al for the longest time. I just never really wanted to come out and say it. I was scared that by telling the Internet about him that he was going to be upset with me or that I'd find something horrible out, but I wanted to let him know I lived all these years and I will live many more because of our phone call.

His job was in no way easy. But listening to me and talking to me about little solutions, it carried me to a few months later to an even that has saved my life.

I'm not saying the next phone call you make it will help you. If you are suicidal or have depression, all I want you to know is one you are not alone and two this isn't your fault.

Go easy on yourself. There were some days where I could do something as complex as listen and mend other people's problems at the day job and there were some days where lifting a spoon was the great achievement.

Every day there's this thing where I have to start over. Yesterday doesn't matter in a sense. Tomorrow doesn't either. Today, I chose to progress in my writing, to find good things to do for others, and to live.

I don't have to become a celebrity. I don't have to become the happiest human being on Earth. I don't have to be the world's most vied for spouse.

I just had to be alive. Just to see what the day was about.

Every day for me is a day that can break me. I never know what will happen. I think about rock bottom a lot more these days. I could be seeing it really soon. Sometimes I wonder if I'll be able to climb back out of the hole I was in, if the footholds from before are still where they were last time.

But every day I tell myself to just do what I think I can and if nothing else can be done, just don't aggravate myself.

I mess up some days majorly. Some days I cry until I can't see. Some days I'm furious and I miss out on thanking God for the sunshine. Some days I fuck up and I slide backwards.

But then the next day starts and it's all over again.

We have to pick our battles. We have to keep our energy up.

As a kid, I heard: evil never dies, but good never gives up. It's an always thing.
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Back when all of this bottom of the well thing happened to me, I didn't have faith. I did and I didn't. I was raised Catholic. Did all the little rites and everything.

But after my auntie died of cancer, I was constantly mad at the sky. Constantly mad at everything and everyone because no one in the world should die before 40 and leave behind kids. No one who loves life should be torn away.

Oh and by the way, sometimes that's shitty too when you're suicidal. You feel ungrateful for not having a way out. Take it from me, stop being so hard on yourself.

A few months after my talk with Al, I got dressed in clothes that just barely fit me. I'd gained weight from stress eating and I didn't want new stuff to grow out of, but I got in the clothes that passed as presentable and I drove down to my school to see if there was any way we could pause my payments until I got a job.

I was nervous. I was having flashbacks to Al. I wondered if he'd pick up the phone again if I called.

I went to a place where I was going to do the first attempt anyway so it all seemed to fall into place too.

I was a true believer in signs so this was just soothing in a way but also horrifying since I'd stepped back into my family's lives.

So I drove to the school, met with the financial person and in literally ten minutes, she smiled and said yup and let me know when you have a job and we'll go back to payments.

I must have sat there looking lost for a moment. I walked out in a daze into the sunlight. Everything seemed to be normal for everyone else.

I felt like a grenade with the pin out and I was scared for people around me, but I didn't go off. And that was weird too.

I expected carnage as I backed out and headed home. The drive home was three times the time of the meeting and it was just so weird. I thought of my phone and how I didn't realize I could have probably just said as much over the phone and gotten the same reply.

I expected to feel humiliated and to feel low after telling them I had no money and no income but I just walked out and no one stuttered or paused or gave a second thought.

I got stuck at a nasty stop light. I remembered it from my days in school. And I'd swear on a stack of bibles that I thought I wasn't alone in the car.

As an ex-Catholic-slash-maybe-atheist-slash-God-hater, I thought I knew the presence riding in the passenger seat. And no, Carrie Underwood, it was not Jesus.

I had flipped off the ceiling and the clouds and statues and saints. I'd bashed, ripped, laughed at, thrown away all this religious memorabilia. I had shut down and basically sang hail satan to my Christian family, but I swear there was a person riding with me.

I've told such a small group of people that story, mainly because I didn't know how to say it and feel right about it. I don't know. I just--the story has always been strange and surreal to me. It wasn't like I looked over and there was a bearded man there.

I was stopped at a stop light and you know how sometimes you can sense someone walking to you or in the room? How there's almost static in the air? I could almost outline the static shape in my passenger seat.

Calm and quiet as ever. Probably had always been there. Probably sat down next to me in the financial office. Probably sat in the passenger seat with me while I poured my heart out to Al. Probably would have sat with me when I drove that car around concrete.
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I had been so mad and so distraught for so many years at that point, almost five, that I had begun to think there really was no God. So to feel someone sit beside me despite the silent treatment, it's safe to say that I drove really slow and in tears the whole way home.

You know, a few months after this drive, I still wasn't getting a job so suddenly one morning while getting dressed, I thought of that precious aunt I lost years ago. I asked her for help. I don't even know why. To this day, I can tell you I have no idea. I just blurted it out.

The same day I got a job. It's funny because that job sucked but I got out of the house, I met a nice lady, I had a lot of beautiful and weird and wild experiences and because of that job, I found the job I'm at now.

And call me crazy. Call me a nut job. You can't bring me down, but I believe this job I have now was her intention all along.

Because I have an incredible support system. Incredible friends.

I could never stand a place for too long before. I always was skipping out on jobs or quitting or giving notice or falling off the payroll and I've spent way more at this new job than I have anywhere else. Happily, for the most part, haha.

My bills get paid. I go out. I have money. I have a loving and wonderful family. And I have faith.

I just wrote all of this down and I still can't believe this is what is basically the end of the story. (In a way the end.)

In that car that night, I couldn't fully use my lungs. I couldn't even imagine another minute going by. I hated the idea of morning. There was no way I thought I'd see the light of the next day, let alone twenty-five.

I never thought that I'd find anyone to dream of a family with. (And I did and though it was brief, it didn't kill me.) I didn't think I'd ever lose weight. (Twenty pounds and counting!) I didn't think I'd feel like I meant anything and yet now I'm impressed with most things that I do. In a totally self-loving way.

I can't believe what my life has turned into. And though my plans for the future lately have scared me to death and I know what's next isn't going to be easy--not by a long shot--I just need to let myself take every increment of time and live it like I want to.

If one day I can only pick up a spoon, I will congratulate myself for picking up that spoon.
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Every day I choose to acknowledge my depression. It's not like it's gone away. I look in the mirror, see what three hours of sleep do after stress and anxiety and I smile and say, "Let's do this again."

And I won't let anyone belittle me on that. That little thing, it took a lot of courage and pain and tears and sometimes blood to achieve. And it makes me happy to start the day fighting.

Some days I'll fuck it all up by not wanting to leave the bed or turn on the laptop or by watching numbers or focusing on the highlight reel of someone else's life instead of loving the off stage work of mine.

And that's fine. Beating depression isn't being happy every day. It's not letting the motherfucker take your life. Take your right to try again and again.

I have such senseless guilt over Chester's passing. I am so mad and sad and angry and hurt and bewildered by the news today.

But I'm not surprised either.

I've been struggling with depression what feels like my whole life so naturally, who better to rage with than with Linkin Park?

I never thought something as simple as we should get him help. I thought it was like talking to someone on the bus after a bad day or venting with a friend about feeling tired.

The signs were all there. No one would mistake Linkin Park for being subtle. But I always thought it was a vent, not a diary.

One of the best things to do as family, loved ones, friends, and fans of people in this state is to remember something. And as people who have depression or other illnesses.

You cannot save someone. You can only love them.

You can build a community. You can listen to them. You can keep their pieces together in some ways, but you can't keep them together if they don't themselves.

I know for some of you reading this, you'll be overwhelmed by that. But remember the spoon thing. Babes, you're not alone. Not by a long shot.

For loved ones, you'll feel helpless and it's not being helpless. It's self-care and it's structure. Don't build guilt where there was no intention to cause harm.

Communication is so important too. It really is. Talking. Venting. But also empowering each other. We are all capable of defeating our dragons. It might not feel like it. I know. I've seen that end, but we can do it.

We might come out all scratched up and altered from it. We might not be the same, but carbon faces great pressure and becomes a diamond.

I feel more guilt about not empowering Chester more. I feel guilt over that so this is why I wrote this post.
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After my life started to resemble a life and not just a hole, I was a little reluctant to go back to the whole God edge of it.

I hadn't told anyone it had saved me. Actually, no one even knew there was something to save me from.

I'd say 2015 it was like I was born again. Not in that spiritual sense but I feel like that year, I learned to talk again. I learned to walk. I learned to love. I learned these things all over again with less pain but more confusion than the first time.

I didn't know how any of it would turn out.

I was actually still under the impression that something would fall apart in November--which was when on top of my regular depression I'd get seasonal depression (like come on, really?)--and I'd just shrug and say, okay, time to die.

That's when I met my new boss and now coworkers/friends. Still. Just cruised along. Day to day.

I tried to be gentle with everyone. I didn't want to leave a big footprint on anyone in one way or the other, and I rediscovered a love for the field I was in.

That winter, I didn't think anyone at my new job liked me, but I was surprised not to be hurt. I was surprised when I realized I was one of the new hires that they did like.

And so again, one day at a time. I allowed myself to think you have a way out. Don't be scared. Whatever it is, we'll face it one day at a time. It'll be okay.

I treated myself with the love and gentleness I always wished someone else treated me with. It was yet again another thing that saved my life.

It also stuck around. Have I mentioned I love myself? Because I do.

Um, so as the second year progressed and I passed that first anniversary, I was a little worried. I mean, I didn't want the bottom of the well, that whole suicide plan to spring on me and not be ready for it, but there was no huge dragon to fight.

There'd be little dragons. Like thinking I couldn't possibly stay at the job I was at--I was afraid to fail when things didn't go to the speed of my drum. Like falling out of touch with certain family members.

But those little dragons they were easy to talk to. They were easy to compromise with.

A year and a half after that call, about that time at least, I was already deciding religion the way it was was not for me. It wasn't looking at people who considered suicide as people who needed help and not to be damned to hell. It looked at people with mental illness as ungrateful when I knew so many people did or thought what they did out of self-mercy or a last act of self-love.

So I figured that wasn't it but I was still spiritual. I decided to believe what I felt in the car was real. The fact that I got a job when I had tried so hard, just by asking the woman who started this journey, was also real.

And so that was where I was at. Again, I believed there were signs everywhere. In that frame of mind there was a perfect happy way to run into heavenly advice. Pinterest.

I have a full board with random little sayings that popped up and at the time that I opened Pinterest they meant something so specific to me.

Meh. Another thing no one else has to believe to validate for me. But you can see this crazy timeline of all the crazy and wonderful and painful things I had to live through 2015-2016.

But one of the things that never made it onto the board of Words to Live By were the words that keep me alive. I know, I know. I keep saying the above events happened that saved me. And they did. But they can be perfectly summed to Psalm 147: 4. Yes. I have that memorized.


Like I said, pit. Sadness. Alone. Sad. But having a being who not only created everything but could keep track of all the tiny specks of light in the sky and know their name and their struggle, how can you not love someone who knows you so well? And loves you above all the things you have done that other people might see as unforgivable?

My saving grace was God. Every time I go through my board, I just want to sing literal praises. I want to tattoo all the love I have for Him on my body so every time He sees me, He can't help but be reminded.

But friends, this is not me trying to convert you. I wouldn't know what to convert you to, first off.

This simple love taught me to give simple love. Like most things, some days I do fail and some days I just can't do it right, but I learned a lot from this passage in the last three years.

If you want the nonreligious version of this passage, despite how many people there have been or ever will be on this planet or outside of it--let's colonize the moon!--you are not alone. You are never alone. It might not always seem that way, but someone out there has gone through or is going through the same thing.

Don't be scared. If you made it this far and your story wasn't just like mine and maybe you're in the suicide stage or maybe you're in the nothing's blowing up it's scaring me stage, we share something. I swear we do. Everyone on the planet shares something with each other.

I'll pray all night for each of you. Courage to reach out is a miracle in and of itself. But I hope you do. I hope you find your Al or you find your friends who feel like your soul's family.

I understand when there seem to be so many reasons to do one last act of self-love. For those of you who have religion, in my heart, I can't imagine a creature who would sentence you to torture after living through so much.

But I also desperately hope that I meet more of you. That we become friends. And that we fight dragons together and maybe have a sundae or an exotic candy when we trip up a little.

This has been the hardest post in the world for me to write. Through tears and guilt and fear, but I can't not try. I can't live with not publishing this, raw, and maybe reaching one of you who might need to hear a survivor.

That night when I felt like there was nothing left, when the people closest to me were through hard clay ground and pebbles and I was so tired from even trying to climb out before to even think of trying again, I needed Al. I needed him more than I ever knew I needed a stranger.

There is no shame in asking for help when you need it.
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And now, even as I write this post, the first, very first post that's on Pinterest is this:

"God can turn A worryer into a warrior. A trial into a triumph. A mess into a message. A test to a testimony."
And I think I am doing the right thing. It might be hard. I have no idea how my family will deal when they find out about this, but I've seen scarier things. And I know I can face this.
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Finally, I originally named this A Moment is All We Are, after the song Chester sang after his friend died. I thought this blog wouldn't have a form or a structure. I really had no plan other than to tell you guys how guilty I felt.

I changed the title because in the hearts and lives of the people we love and we help and who help and love us, we are forever. Forever, my loves.

Instead, the title alludes to the same song by this title. You might just be one more light, one more star in this huge sky full of stars, but you are still a star. Someone knows you by name. Someone knows what you're going through.

You mean something to someone and you always will.
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If you need any help, please don't hesitate to contact me.

I have a Tumblr (Sailor Moon and Not) with open messages and asks. Anon or otherwise.

I have an email: ebelleful @ gmail.

I have a Twitter where I can do DMs.

If you want to have a virtual beer with me over Chester's life, cheers, let's do this.

If you need someone to cry with about Chester, I got you.

If you need someone to talk to, an Al, there are hotlines and there's me.

I have no doubt in my soul that we can do this and that you specifically can clear the clouds over your head or spring out a cute umbrella. And I love you all, you resilient perfect imperfect babies. And I do mean it.

<3

If you have any information on Al, who worked at a hotline end of 2014 (I wish I could remember what hotline I called,) please let me know! I really want to tell him what's become of the girl who wanted to wrap her car around a bridge. And to thank him for all the brave things he did that night to save my life.

Tuesday, July 18, 2017

Anime Clichés for Everyone

Hi, everyone!

Note: This post has been filed in the Drafts folder and never made it out back in the spring when I binged anime. So here's the post on clichés we all know and love. Enjoy!

So Magical Girl March is over!

I didn't do very well on the whole find other shows and watch them. I did Tokyo Mew Mew, Madoka Magica, PGSM, and a season of Sailor Moon. I tried Cardcaptor Sakura and I was planning on going back, but I got caught up in other things.

**If you want to rifle through some of the adventures I've had in photo sets, my Tumblr is yours for the viewing. I'm sorry in advance if you die of boredom.**

But getting back to the post, after watching a lot of anime and Crack videos (they call them crack because they are addictive) and laughing and joining the general anime community, there are some clichés/tropes/patterns that I've noticed.

This is probably not the final list. Feel free to comment which ones I missed!

(In no particular order.)


1. Getting a nosebleed when you see someone sexy

Holy cow! I first really took notice of this in a similar YouTube video poking fun at an anime. But the more I got into it, the more I realized how common it is to get a nosebleed.

Not sure if that makes anyone a prude or...overly excited?

Hmm.


2. The teacher, who is always female, has a very sad love life.

Which usually pours over into the way she teaches her students. Oi.

3. Whenever someone's called back, we usually get a shot of their feet stopping.

No one ever seems to look back at the person catching them off guard. But hey, that seems reasonable.

4. Shutting your eyes for periods of time while talking to another being.

Not sure. But have been told by others they do it as well. I only do it if I take a breath and need to separate myself from the situation.

Before I end up agreeing to something insane.

Maybe a cultural thing? I just haven't researched this one a ton so I will come back and run an edit once I do.

5. Every magical group has either a:

--rich girl
--an idol
--or an orphan living on her/his own.

Um, Japan...er...kay.

Not sure what that's about either.

6.  Running away from situations/discussions.

Again, I'm not sure if it has something to do with the maturity or age but there are a lot of runners.

7. Most characters, maybe just in the world of magic, tend to be good-hearted fighters.

Usagi Tsukino to Sakura to Ichigo Kuraski, they're all these wonderful, flawless, mostly selfless creatures.

8. Where the hell are their parents?

Not being insensitive to the orphans, idols, or extremely rich kids of Japan, but the rest are pretty much free until bedtime or dinnertime or money time. Free range parenting?

An American thing to have parents be a huge part of life? Hmm...

9. Pervertedness galore.

I think we know it from the huge, unnatural, break-the-laws-of-physics boobs and the old men falling face first into them, that there's a pervert theme for even a kid's show.

This one I might understand for reasons I wouldn't feel comfortable talking about here. HAHA! Just kidding. But animation is a huge part of Japan's world since World War II. I think there might just be a link between animators at work on kids' shows and other adult shows.

That and the real reason are probably more up to debate. Whether or not there's a higher level of sexualization in kids' shows as part of a cultural thing or just as a human thing—y'all have gone back to see Lion King as adults right?—it'll probably vary person to person, show to show.

10. The explanations.

It happens a lot more with the more action based (more boy based) anime where the fight gets stopped and the dudes (I seriously can't remember a girl doing this) goes on a long speech to explain what has happened and how the magic works.

Bleach is so bad/good at this it makes me want to melt to the ground and lose my hearing.


11. Protagonist is always a glutton.

Tokyo Mew Mew's Ichigo, Sailor Moon's Usagi? What's with the bottomless pits?

Again, probably something with how we perceive kids. They're not conscious of health so they don't care what they're doing to themselves.



This is going to part of my ongoing list so check back in in the future as I remember and scribble down some more. If I missed your favorite anime cliché, @ me on Twitter or message me at my Tumblr. I'm always on both.

XO

Tuesday, June 27, 2017

Playlist! 2017 #5

Hello, my heavenly kittens!

Tis I, the person who can't decide how to punctuate the word tis. Apostrophe somewhere? Yes?

Anyway!

I'm back with another playlist. This time, with one that's a tad bit more universal than the last. I think I've done one of these types before but never with the same music.

I got this music again from following various recommendations on YouTube and weeding out the ones that just didn't catch my interest.

This pile is for dramatic type moments. Not much more to say, fried from work, so enjoy!

YOU DON'T KNOW by Katelyn Tarver


UNWORTHY by Vancouver Sleep Clinic


STAKES by Vancouver Sleep Clinic


SOMEONE TO STAY by Vancouver Sleep Clinic


BONUS ROUND!!!!!



Because we all need a stupid laugh every once in a while.


XO
eb

Wednesday, June 21, 2017

Nighttime Routine

Hello, little wonders!

I almost titled this Come Sleep with Me and I realize now how stupid that is. God. Help. Me.

Anyway!

Lately, I've had a broken way of sleeping, but for the last few months, I've been quenching my story-lust with audio stories!

YouTube is actually full of great narrators. I fall asleep, like my father and his father before him, listening to stories.

In my case, horror.


I know. Who would have guessed?

Right now, I'm trying to restructure an old NaNoWriMo novel (just to change the pace of the editing process which is DEADDEADDEADTOME.) And the novel has a lot to do with wendigos. So fun!

I almost fucking screamed because someone just messaged me. hashtagFUCK
So I'm here to fill your lives with nightmares by sharing my favorite narrators!

First up! I just discovered this dear.

JUST CREEPY

Smooth reading, so far great content, love listening. Not a huge fan base. (Only 10k? Rising star!) But great so far.

LAZY MASQUERADE

My current favorite. Lazy is hilarious and great to listen to. Lots of life and personality and as a bonus to varied content, I nearly pissed myself listening to him narrate hate comments.



He's got a knack for making me late to work.

CORPSE HUSBAND

This being is the one I'm most conflicted about so I will tell you why: that voice is


Love his voice. Deep and he seems like a funny guy too. Only issue here is that he doesn't update as much as he used to. Sorry.

CHILLS

Chills is everywhere!

Lists and stories and different channels.

It took me a while to get into the narrating style but this narrator I feel has the biggest hustle of them all. I can't take two steps into scary YouTube without running into Chills.

BE. BUSTA, URMAKER, LADY WHITE RABBIT

I listen to these narrators a little less but still discovering really great content!

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I listen to so many great people I KNOW I'm missing someone on this list. If you guys have anyone great and new I should check out, please let me know! I am not incredibly picky.

Sunday, June 18, 2017

So Convenient

Hello, my little surprises.

Just going to do a short post on something that's been on my mind all day.

Today is Father's Day.

Which is a great source of joy and tears in my family. My father is a caring warm individual who loves kids and people so much, he kinda just adopts people as he goes. He's got a way of claiming hearts.

We're super thankful and lucky here in my house to have him 98% of the time.

And for the last few years I haven't really been so active in social media during this time, though my dad ever the hard-worker decided to do some reno today of all days. So I browsed and answered messages and well wishes and posted selfies.

I was actually shocked by the amount of people who could give a rat's ass about fathers.

I mean, I know a good handful of people who don't have the best dads. The ones who know theirs, but across the board, almost no one posted pictures or said anything.

Staggering.

I clearly didn't grow up in that environment. So it's perplexing in a way. I'm still trying to wrap my mind about so many people being so bad that their offspring wouldn't send one measly "Happy Father's Day" post across Twitter or post a food selfie on Facebook.

Not that I'm judging you. I just never grasped how vast it was--or maybe my company has changed a lot over the last few years. And that's true.

But I'm not here to talk about that--though honestly I can't stop thinking about it. I'm here to talk about the complaints I've been seeing.

About people being insensitive by saying Happy Father's Day (to the general public) or Facebook doing the post a selfie in a frame thing.

Now I can see the argument both ways. Sadly, a pinchful of people I know have lost their mothers, so seeing the frame for Mother's Day was horrible. Even I wanted to shut their computer for them, but I could see how for people like me who have much to be grateful for, it's nice to see an international day of celebration for daddies who deserve it.

So what's the solution?

I can't help but notice, like the rest of you, how GREAT Twitter is at suspending accounts for defending people getting bullied and how WONDERFUL Facebook is at not shutting down live killings, but can't seem to figure out how to pick and choose from keywords who to promote Mother and Father holiday things.

It's funny, isn't it? How we can have round avis but not bullies and bots kicked off microblogs. Funny how we can spread fake news and not make special offers hidden unless looked for.

I don't mean to be one of those guys, but I wouldn't feel left out if the frames for selfies or virtual cards were something I had to go looking for in special features. The thing about genuinely happy people is that they don't need require others to feel bad about an already uncomfortable situation.

To all of you who can't or won't celebrate, I hope you enjoyed your day. I hope it was good weather and you got stuff or nothing at all done. I hope that any asshat who crossed your path runs into a wall nose first.

I love you all.

XO
The ebelleful Clan

Friday, June 16, 2017

Playlist! 2017 #4

Hey buckets full of wonder!

I'm finally awake.

How are you all? I am ecstatic coming off an incredible birthday, which will in fact get a full post in a way in the future (probably five years from now if we're being honest.)

I haven't been in the mood to blog. Or write. Or edit. Or read. Or watch new movies or old ones.

And I thought I had other interests at first or maybe that I was too busy but ACTUALLY, science has shown that if you don't get enough sleep, we're talking less than three hours of full sleep, you tend not to feel like yourself.

But this is the second day I've actually had a full night's sleep. Full post on tips for that too, if some of you are in that boat.

So I'm happy and awake and happy! Probably lost more than a few brain cells but you know what? I haven't lost a few of my brain cells at least.

Anyway, with all that happening, it's been hard to find new music. But I've finally scratched up enough for themed playlists. I've listened to quite a lot of suggestions from YouTube (some I have thankfully blocked from my brain) and weeded out some of my favorites.

WARNING: angry, loud music

FEELING NOTHING by The Plot in You


INSPIRE THE LIARS by Dance Gavin Dance


And this one which I thought was going to be a parody of Summertime Sadness. Watch the video. Keep Summertime Sadness in mind. This is shocking and wonderful:

SUMMERTIME GLADNESS by Dance Gavin Dance


Well that's it for today. Thank you so much again for not burning me down and at least clicking here.

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Ciao.

Thursday, June 8, 2017

Day 100!

Hello, my lovelies.



I know not a lot of you are left doing this challenge. I honestly thought that with a buddy, it'd be easier to be held accountable. And maybe motivating and fun to see a MadLibs sort of story by the end of it, but I'm included in the lot who found this hard (in the sense I had no idea what I was writing.)

Scheduling was chaotic. Messaging. Inspiration-ing.

I think next time, at least for me, it'll be more of a 30 Day Challenge, just to get in the groove of writing again at a set time. Because that is important to creativity.

You wouldn't think having a schedule and a set time to be creative would foster imagination, but your brain will program itself in due to time to think in different ways to get the words flowing.

I think as far as long challenges like these, I'll save for people who have never written before. I did something very similar when I started writing earnestly (read: obsessively.) I think it helped me work every single day, with a few exceptions, on different things that involved creativity.

Now I'm not great at endings, so for the last challenge, I think the best thing to do is my favorite kind of ending. The circular. Try your hardest, to go back to that first sentence and mirror it.

If you need to jog your memory, here's Day 1.

And for those of you who didn't just TLDR The Vampire Diaries like I did, that ending, right??? Holy crap!



If you want to share, please please please tag me in your 100 Challenge post so I can read what you created. I'll be posting mine below as well. As far as I got:

"You thought the jump would kill us and you let me jump!"

"Ssh, they could still be up there." He slowly lifted his finger to point out the edge of the copper canyon.

A few fluffy white clouds lazily dragged behind the scalloped edge of the canyon.

There was a lone, echoing cry above us, some bird of prey had sent as a sonar.

The eerie muted wail of sirens jarred the vibrant desert reality around us and we ducked closer to the flowing water.

The water picked up in the middle where we landed, fast and to a rhythm.

We scooted off the edge and pulled our feet from the bottom to be pulled down the river.

The ride down stream sounded boisters in my ears but no one ever showed up along the top of the canyon; cue the horror score.

I shot a glare at Davin as his lifepreserver bounced off rocks, stopping him.

He didn't notice me.

"We just prolonged our deaths," I say.

"So?" Daven trudged out of the waters, stumbling over the rocks.


Without shoes, I was way more graceful climbing up the pebble bank.

*shudder

*UPDATE: I forgot and the damn thing didn't post the blog!